|CAN A MARRIED WOMAN BE RAPED| AN AFRICAN MENTALITY

Hello fam!

Hope we all are having an incredible day? Yes I talked about consistency, it’s so funny because I have several post saved, but I’m just like it is really not the right time for them. I guess it’s the right time for this post, since the issue of rape has become rampant in this side of the world.

Last week in class my lecturer was talking about a topic I found very interesting. His answer was that( although, he can’t force his wife if she refuses but culturally speaking, a man can’t rape his wife). And I asked why, majority of the guys in my class had one unique reply( after paying her bride price).

There are so many women going through this, but because of our culture we become ignorant.

What then is rape?

Rape means sex without consent

Afterwards, I asked from a few of my friends their opinion on this issue. They all said it is true that a married woman can be raped. My friend even gave an instance that happened in her vicinity, where a married man beat his wife because she didn’t consent to his sexual desire. The man happened to be Someone who drinks a lot.

For me, a married woman can be raped. Reason being that she isn’t your entitlement and I think there are better ways to have pleasure with your wife. She’s your partner and not your property. Rape is rape. Rape within marriage is called marital rape. It’s a big deal in other countries. Sadly, Nigeria’s law doesn’t recognise it yet.

So I’m throwing it out there, what’s your opinion about this topic, your contributions, what are your thoughts. Comment below and I’ll see you on my next post…….. BYE

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Lifestyle |

Hello fam!

How are we all doing?, sorry I haven’t been posting. I had so many things doing that is why. It’s so good to be back in Ibadan. Now that I’mboxed up I had to eat everything I’ve been craving for so long.

If you don’t know Amala Skye in Ibadan, where do you know then(lol). The place is located along bodija road, beside Polaris bank.

Their food is actually nice but kinda expensive.

Goatmeat-500

Fish-1000

Snail-1000

Amala-( amala start from 100)

Gbegiri and EweduπŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹

So I spent #800πŸ™†πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ plus bottle water because they don’t sell sachet water.

If you read my prevpost where I talked about my cravings. We just had to do it

See spend wisely but live your best live.

And I’ll see you on my next post BYE..…..

Lifestyle |June life update

Hello fam!

Happy New month!!!

Finally resuming school after three months break. They’re seeing my face too much in my house,can you believe my mom said ; atleast if you leave my drinks would stop reducing. Thanks for the love from my previous post.

This post is to give you all update on what has been up in my life. So, let’s dive into it:

Wearing :

(I haven’t had time to take pictures lately. So, if you’ve seen this picture before,let’s pretend I took it recently)

Wishing : I wish I could change my phone but #brokelife

Craving : Pizza,I don’t know how it taste again #brokelife

Excited to : be returning back to Ibadan, i didn’t say school oo. The stress in Lagos is too much.

Read: My sister the serial killer, Circe, Left to tell:discovering God amidst the Rwandan holocaust,Molokai and Home going. Make sure you read atleast one, they’re interesting.

Determined to : To be consistent in all that I do. Also, to make this blog more diverse and worth reading.

Watched: Grownish,Grey anatomy, Star,My perfect family.

Worked on: My catering business ( so if you need your girl for any home service,birthday etc she’s available)

Spent time: With my love ones and studying God’s word

Checked : My account balance

Crushed on: I should tell you, but it’s personal nah.

Grateful : for life, this new journey and everyone that has supported me.

There was so many things that took place but these are the ones I could put down. Thanks for reading and I’ll see you on my next post BYE.

Comment below few things that went on in the month of June and that you’re grateful for.

Food 101|three course meal with me

Hello fam

If someone had told me i will be uploading this post as at friday morning,i will not even believe. But here it is. I was sick during the week and i am grateful that i got better and made this post a reality.

I woke up feeling motivated and ready to blog what went now on Saturday. I would have love to show you the process but my dad must not see my phone close to the gas. Hopefully, i get to take pictures some other time.

You know breakfast are always light meals, so why not start my weekend light. I ate potato,plantain, egg and ketchup (that’s light ). I didn’t have to chop pepper for the egg, just a plain egg that was well fried with a pinch of salt.

Yummy!!!

I don’t often eat in the afternoon, but when i do, you’ll always catch me snacking on biscuit and Pepsi.

Finally, for dinner I had to go big. By the way, I was never a fan of spaghetti but my roommate spaghetti was irresistible. Now I love spaghetti πŸ’™

I hope you enjoyed it ,as much as I enjoyed writing it.

Comment below how you spent your weekend and I’ll see you on my next post. BYE……

10 random fact

HELLO Fam!

I hope your day is going well. I decided to share random fact about me. Some of which a few may know or may not know if only I told you.

Here are 10 random fact about me

  • I don’t have brows, yes I’m the girl whose brows went on vacation.
  • I ever leave anywhere without my lip gloss. My lecturer even calls me groundnut oil because my lips are always shinning.

  • I am the second born but in my head I’m actually the first born.
  • I hate being called fat ,you can just say thick. That’s a way of consoling myself now that I’m weighing 68kgπŸ™†πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ.
  • I am 5’5, if I were tall iyalaya anybody okay.
  • I can’t eat without watching a movie and also I can recite so many episodes on Skinny Girl In transit. It’s my favourite Nigerian series. I’m pretty sure that this knowledge would help me in the future. (Can I get an amen ,thank you).

This isn’t a proposal but Mide MCCURLY would you be my boyfriend again.

  • I love Pepsi. If they made people their ambassador by the amount of Pepsi you take. I know for sure I’ll be number oneπŸ€”πŸ€£.
  • I love mayorkun, in my head we are married period.

But I want to hmmm on your face

  • I am passionate about education. I volunteer for One African Child.
  • Favourite bible verse Ecce 3:1

To everything there is a season ,a time for every purpose under heaven.

Comment below random fact about yourself, let’s connect and I’ll see you on my next post. Bye!

Hi welcome to my blog

Hello fam!

Finally,after what seemed to be like two years of using different jotter to upload my blog postπŸ€¦πŸΎβ€β™€οΈπŸ€£, I am here. I am so excited for this journey.

WHO AM I

I am Feyikemi Akibu, my friends call me Feyi bumbum (to those that have bigger bumbum, forgive them πŸ™), my dad calls me AYINKE when he need something from me. But I am Feyikemi. I love cooking, eating(They work hand in hand🀣) reading,art,taking pictures πŸ€” I think that is all for now. Stay tune for more information about myself.

WHAT MY BLOG IS ABOUT

My blog would be ranging from fashion to lifestyle to food ,basically everything and anything. For fashion, it would be majorly what inspires me and budget friendly. Lifestyle, would be about my life experiences,inspiration, advice and everything. I think food would be under lifestyle, what I eat in a day, healthy meals and many more.

Thanks for taking your time to read this ,see you guys on my next post.

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